"She's Pretty For A Darkskin Girl" Pardon?

Heya and welcome to another one of my infamous blogs. Hope I meet you all in good health? Well hey, let’s get tucked in.

How many times have we heard this phrase "She's pretty for a dark skin girl"? As if to say that G-d was bias when creating women, like what may be seen as unattractive is exclusive to people of a certain shade, utter poppycock of the highest order.

Beauty is you, yes you that is reading this post, irrespective of what complexion you may be. You are cynosure, you are the prototype, don't believe me? Go and ask Andre 3000. There are too many different phenotypes in this big wide world which consists of over 6 billion people for there to be one standard of beauty. Please wash your eyes and remove the European contact lens that the media have fixed to it. You are stuck with you for while; it might help to appreciate you. You are your own insecurities. 

Look at the decepticon. Walking fraud, they should call her Nigeria.

Why would you want to keep up with the likes of Kim KarDasherinabin? Does she even know who you are? I beg, kindly slap yourself. Are you not aware what the wonders of Photoshop and plastic surgery can do? You can't try and keep up with a lie. You're just going to end up looking like Lil Kim... A confused question, which is exactly what she looks like.

Jesus, Buddha, Krishna one of you please take the wheel and take control.

You've got some white women tanning, looking like a walking talking orange and then you've got some black women bleaching. Why would you damage the layer of protection (melanin) that you were giving to protect you against the harmful rays of the sun? Why would you damage the thing that converts the sun rays into energy? Melanin is what chlorophyll is to a plant. There are women out there who don't bleach put they indulge in Mac post code wars. They know their skin tone is NW 55 but they're using NW 25. Their face is now Halle while their neck looks Snipes. 

Some have been so brainwashed that they've created societies and sororities that ostracize dark skin females. Certain sets of people have created stupid groups and teams such as #TeamLightSkin and #TeamDarkSkin, what nonsensical nonsense? You this stupid Goat, you this senseless Lizard. Get the fark out of here with your prejudice bull crap. It seems like a lot of people suffer from post traumatic slavery syndrome.

The promoter of this rave should be welcomed with a festival of slaps, asinine nincompoop.

Your complexion makes you no better than the next individual. Just slap yourself, please and make sure you slap your lips too for spewing such nonsensical nonsense . I hear women complain about some men loving off light skin women but then in the same breath most of them will say “I just love dark skin men, I could never be with a light skin dude”.  You this hypocritical Giraffe, so you complain about being left out by some and then you go and do the same. However, I understand why this is, life in the Diaspora is heart wrenching. The globalisation of the European woman's beauty is all over the world and has left its mark, no Skids. The need for lighter skin is a must for many women of African descent and Asian descent. All women want to be beautiful but the only problem with this, is that beauty through the medias eyes is tantamount to 'whiteness'. The portrayal of lighter skin women in the media and dark skin men subconsciously paint the premise that dark skin is only suited well on men. All this coloristic division causes further segregation within the black community as well as the Asian community. If you weren't aware many Asians have this same issue.

If you are a woman who is from an Indigenous lineage you cannot be looking to the media to tell you that you are beautiful, the same media which is run by Zionist, the same Zionist who perpetuated the curse of ham story which said that people of dark skin were born to be slaves. Happiness comes from within, if you are looking to find it in someone or something else you will be pleasantly embarrassed. It's funny how the same things that Sara Baartman was ridiculed for is what so many Caucasians are paying thousands for today.

I understand the struggles that black women go through. Not only do they face the issues of being a woman, they also face the struggles of being black. I hear some men say they are done with black women, you can't write off a whole set off people because of the bad ones you have allowed into your life. And might I add, a bish can come in any shade, not just black. The saddest thing is that black women are generally raised to be tough by their mothers and this inadvertently can make some of them difficult to deal with. Remember bitter mums do not raise sweethearts. The struggle a black woman goes through in the western world is different to what every other women goes through. As a black man, one must understand and empathise with black women with the battles they face living in the Diaspora.


As stressed earlier, you can't in one breath complain about men showing a disdain for dark-skin women and then in the same breath show an abhorrence towards light-skin men. I have heard a myriad of women say "I could never date a light'skin man, euurghh, yuck, puke, vomit". It is asinine to scream from the hilltops about being ostracised and then ostracise another group of people yourselves.


How do you expect the lighter hue of man to feel knowing that he too is being overlooked? As Nubain's we are diverse, we come on all different shades, lets appreciate and be auspicious to this.

If you don't know who Sara Baartman is, click the video.

Have You And Your Face Had An Argument, As To Why You Always Have To Make Up?

"Women are insecure because of men" No, most women are insecure because they are puppets to the media and consumerism. I have heard women say countless times that when they get dressed up, they do so for themselves, so how can you then blame your insecurities on men? Truth be told most of you women dress up to outdo yourselves (got this from a source which I can’t disclose, inside information). Please don’t get me wrong, men may play a part in this but the onus is on you, you have the power of choice. For everyman who doesn’t like you, there will be plenty of other men who do; most women are not short of admirers, no Sisqo. Yeah some men love a woman with an ass that looks like its holding her hostage, some men love women who have airbags for breasts. Some women don't like short men, we all have our own preferences. 

There is nothing wrong with wearing makeup but there is a problem when you can’t leave your house without it. That is when there is an issue. As stated earlier, you are your own insecurities. Learn to love you, if you haven't noticed you are stuck with you for a while.  I understand the pressures you go through as a woman constantly being harassed by the media with a million and one products, but it is weak minds that fall subject to the tricks and games that consumerism feeds.

If you actually went and asked men, you'd be surprised that most of us abhor make up, we detest all the attachments that some of you drown your faces in. Why would you want to turn your face into the subways of Harlem and begin to graffiti on it? Most of us simply put up with it. I have heard some women say "but oh so many of you like Nicki Minaj, Rhianna and Beyonce". Ermm we know that when they are on set that they are drowned in makeup, when on set if any of you have been on TV you will know that it is mandate that one must wear makeup. Most of us know this, so please don't use this as your soap box, many thanks amen cheers. Oh and might I add all three of them have had plastic surgery, so they clearly aren't that happy with themselves.

No matter how much makeup you wear, you eyes and body language can’t mask your insecurities and lack of confidence in yourself that you might have.

The same celebrities that so many of you dream to look like don’t look the same as they do on TV. I have gone to award shows, clubs and seen some of these women, they look totally different, please understand and grasp this. Most men are not pleased by the fake. Come as you are, so we can accept you for you.

Learn to love you, you are cynosure, there is only one you. The same things you dislike and like about you, are the same things that make you unique. 

There are things I don’t particularly like about myself but the more you feed a leech, the bigger the sucker it becomes. Don’t allow the things you were born with to become a parasite and drain your confidence out of you.

It is said that the average British woman spends 133k over her lifetime on beauty, the media are having a field day with you. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/beauty/article-1359058/Beauty-lifetime-Women-spend-133-000-face-hair-body.html .

" Pretty, pretty please, Don't you ever, ever feel, Like your less than, Fuckin' perfect, Pretty, pretty please, If you ever, ever feel, Like your nothing, You're fuckin' perfect to me".

If you're looking for a man to complete you, you've missed the whole point.

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